Drawn Together: Women’s Retreat on the Olympic Peninsula
August 13, 2016
I just returned from five days at the Nature Bridge conference center in Olympic National Park near Lake Crescent where I joined 12 other women on retreat. As check-in was at 3:00 p.m. on Monday and I left after breakfast on Friday, we had just three full days there — not really long enough for me to completely relax and rejuvenate — but still a true vacation from my city life.
The definition of a retreat is “an act of moving back or withdrawing,” especially from what is difficult, dangerous or disagreeable. Or it can be a withdrawal for contemplation and meditation. I found my experience at Nature Bridge way too stimulating for that. There were all these interesting and wise women to meet and be friendly with. The immediate surroundings offered walking trails and swimming. Every day a few of the group took off on day trips to the ocean beaches, longer hiking trails on the other side of the lake, or other destinations on the peninsula. The choices!

The Nature Bridge campus. All 13 of us stayed in a larger, multi-room cabin rather than one of these cute cottages.
“The time for it is always with us though we say I do not have that kind of time. The kind of time I have is not for this but for that. I wish I had that kind of time. But if you had that kind of time — would you do it? Would you give it a try?”
— Lynda Barry, What It Is
This retreat was a chance for me to have the time for “it,” and I decided that my “it” would be devoting myself to painting. It was hard to stay focused on the goal with so many appealing alternatives. The lovely thing about these days was that all meals were provided and I did not have to spend one minute thinking about the state of my cupboards, meal planning, or cooking. We met as a group at breakfast and dinner, but other than that, our time was completely self-directed.
And although I did manage to make a painting each of the five days, I found I did not create as many as I had expected. The free days were a gift, but somehow the hours disappeared far too quickly. For me, this was a revealing taste of what life might be like in retirement. I think I will have to develop a rhythm and structure to my days — with a regular few hours sitting down with my paints — in order to settle my mind and feel some sense of growth and satisfaction. I never did find this kind of rhythm at Nature Bridge.
The first afternoon I walked the “Moments in Time” loop trail through a stand of old growth forest. And I made my first painting there. This Western Red Cedar was completely burned out at the bottom, but still managed to live, with green on its upper branches.
I am still transitioning back to city life, but I will share more of my Nature Bridge experience in the next few days. Stay tuned!
Finding Serenity in the Crush of Manhattan
February 6, 2013
“Any work of architecture which does not express serenity is a mistake.”
— Luis Barragan (1902 – 1988), from The Architect Says: Quotes, Quips and Words of Wisdom, ed. Laura S. Dushkes
You can find respite from the bustle of New York City in numerous places, for example, by stepping inside any of its churches and places of worship. They were always an oasis of calm. We checked out St. Malachy’s Actors’ Chapel while we were waiting for the lottery for Book of Mormon tickets. The low-lit interior was a refreshing contrast to the glaringly insistent neon of Times Square, just a couple of blocks away.
Another very special retreat in Midtown Manhattan is the Chapel of the Good Shepherd at Saint Peter’s Church. This space and its wall sculptures and furnishings were designed by sculptor Louise Nevelson. It brought to mind the chapel Matisse designed in Vence, France — such an all-embracing work of art. (Thank you, Linda, for the suggestion to see this.)
Of course, wherever I travel, I know I can find a contemplative place in its libraries.
“The library is often the place where you can find the spirit of the monk: in silence, the lustre of old woodwork, the smell of ageing paper, reading, retreat from the world, rules and authorities, tradition, volumes of wisdom, catalogues for contemplation.”
— Thomas Moore, Meditations
I loved the traditional look and quiet rooms of the Morgan Library and Museum. I regret that we did not take the time to enjoy the Beatrix Potter exhibit there, but you can see an online version of the exhibit, which featured some of her letters with pictures, here.
We walked from the Morgan Library to the New York Public Library on Fifth Avenue. Even before we got there, I knew this would be a special experience because the street leading up to the front doors is called “Library Walk,” and it is lined with plaques embedded in the sidewalk that feature literary quotes.
This library has a beautiful reading room and grand spaces.
“I have always imagined that Paradise will be a kind of library.”
— Jorge Luis Borges
Georgetown Garden Walk 2011
July 13, 2011
Summer gardens are flourishing, and communities often host Garden Walks to showcase their gardens. I’ve never attended a Garden Walk event, so I made it a point to check out this year’s walk in the Georgetown neighborhood of Seattle. Georgetown is perhaps better known as an industrial and warehouse district, but there are a few residential streets and pockets of houses nestled among the businesses in the area. Armed with a map of the participating gardens, my friend Carol and I set off to explore the neighborhood. Here are some photos:
Free Time
August 26, 2010
The Seattle Public Libraries are closing for one week starting August 30th in a budget-saving effort, and that means a week of unpaid time off work for me. I don’t have definite plans this year. I’d like to take a road trip, but the negatives are weighing in — I hate to be amidst the peak summer crowds and traffic, my husband may not be able to get away from his work commitments, and we’re on a tight budget this year. I usually like to plan trips far ahead of time, because I enjoy the pre-trip reading, planning, and anticipation almost as much as the actual journey! If we do get away this week, it will be on the spur of the moment.
It’s not like I won’t enjoy my week off if we don’t go on a long road trip. I’ve got plenty of ideas for spending this time:
- Take a shorter loop drive on the scenic North Cascades Highway.
- Take the ferry to Bainbridge Island and have lunch in Winslow.
- Drive the side roads to Tacoma, staying as close as possible to the Sound; have a picnic at Dash Point State Park, a state park in Seattle’s suburbs, but located right on Puget Sound. I can’t recall ever spending any time there.
- Make it a goal to finish my red Bear Paw quilt. I’ve pieced enough blocks for a wall quilt. Now I need to sew them together, add a border of Flying Geese blocks, and hand quilt it. I haven’t done quilting in a long time. Using this week for a special project like this might help me overcome my inertia.
- Treat myself to a mini-retreat at home: sketch and paint every day, and visit museums for inspiration.
- Clean the basement.
- Have a reading marathon at home, and then sell the books at a used book store.
- Edit my archive of online photos
What would you do with a week off?
Re-entry
July 26, 2010
I returned home from my retreat yesterday. I’m so glad I went. The week away was a cherished gift to myself. I can’t say that I’ve been transformed or changed into a new person. But I do feel filled up with beautiful images, words, and bits of wisdom. I now need to let all this input percolate and slowly incorporate these new insights and practices into my daily routines at home.
I’ll be posting more about my retreat experience in the next few days. So stay tuned. . .
In the meantime, it’s good to be back home.