Wild Geese
May 12, 2009

Pair of Canada geese above the pond on my Dad's farm

Canada goose coming in for a landing

Canada goose landing in the meadow
You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.
Tell me about your despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile, the world goes on.
Meanwhile, the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination.
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting —
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.
— Mary Oliver, “Wild Geese” (Thank you to Lynne, who gave this poem in her comments to my April 28th post.)
Every spring, my Dad awaits the return of a pair of Canada geese to the pond by his long driveway. Once they arrive, he sets out shelled corn every day to entice them to stay. It is possible that the same pair has been returning year after year. Canada geese typically mate for life, are monogamous, and they can live up to 24 years in the wild.
Today is my 31st wedding anniversary. I’d like to use this pair of Canada geese as a metaphor for our marriage. I’d like to think that we will be together for life. I’d like to think that we can travel far and wide, but still return together to the place we call home.